I'd say Millerton tends more toward the "small town charm" side. Houses in the village are more densely packed and it's a nice and quaint community. People can definitely get together, and there are actually some things to do like going to cafes, restaurants, and I think there's even a movie theater here. I do honestly like this town.
It's outside the Millerton hamlet that you'll find things are way too spread out for there to be any charm. Once you leave Millerton, it's wide-open and there are big gaps in between houses sometimes.
