Mssr

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Just now

"Am I on candid camera?"

If there were three words I would use to describe this area and its inhabitants, it would be foreign, unspeakable, and clueless. As an American having lived in many towns, I have to say Bensonhurst is a big disappointment. I lived here in the late 80's and 90's where the majority of folks were English speaking Americans and the businesses reflect the same American pride. Moved away to the suburbs of Long Island for 10 years then recently returned to the area (hopefully just for a short stay) and was shocked with what I saw. A majority of the folks are now non-English speaking foreigners who have rejected American culture (just walk down the main thoroughfares and all the American stores are fast disappearing. Plus have you seen the multitude of Chinese massage parlors on 18th avenue ?? ) In fact, most of the actions and behaviors of these foreigners would be condemned by mainstream educated American society. What happened to civility and manners? Was it really necessary to push someone out of the way in a subway car just to grab a seat ? Do "women" really have to dress like prostitutes and flash men on the subway?
Mind you I value diversity as much as the next person, but when a community is overwhelmingly chinese, russian, middle eastern, with a small trace of Italians, that does not spell diversity? Where are the caucasians? The african americans? The carribean-americans? Walk down the block and meeting an English speaking American is as rare as seeing a unicorn wearing a tutu. Point made.
Pros
  • Can't think of anything
Cons
  • Lack of Americans
  • Lower class of people
wartman
wartman Dear Mssr, I am sorry that you had a tough time during hurricane Sandy. I gather that is why you are suddenly back in Bensonhurst after 10 years of having been out on Long Island.

This time has been hard on everybody but please don't take out your frustrations here and please remember that Bensonhurst, given its location, probably got clobbered by Sandy as well so things are likely more chaotic than usual there right now.

I hope you can return to your home out on the Island soon.
2yrs+
FrancesA
FrancesA Many of the "foreigners",I have gotten to know speak English.
2yrs+
bron1974
bron1974 the italians and italian-americans were assimilationists who were not permitted to speak their native tongues due to the anglo and irish dominance. nor were they to discuss their homelands extensively. now, because of tv, technology, cheap airline travel, etc. and because of having a different race than the majority, this is different. it started with the puerto ricans in the '60's, etc. times have changed, indeed.
2yrs+
bron1974
bron1974 how dare you. i am of argentine extraction. who's insinuating that most russians beyond siberians and those in the newly claimed southern regions are not caucasian? what planet are you on??!!
2yrs+
xena-cuevasx
xena-cuevasx American culture? You are talking about years of slavery, no aknowledgment for hardworking immigrants and consumer based culture? I suggest you get to know the foreigners because they may have a lot more to offer than what you may think. It sounds more like classism than manners what you are refering to. Also, of course foreigners act different, they have no one to help them immerse in this culture unlike caucausians who on average were more welcomed in the USA than other races, I mean did you offer them to get to know you or your "culture" or were you just sitting back and judging me from afar? We can progress with more real culture and real education and by helping one another not by believing that a certain manner/culture is the only one that is accepted. I could go on about the cruelty that these "manners" hide, native american genocide? Please think before you speak or in this case, type anything.
2yrs+
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